tchotchke tchelsea (finalizethis) wrote in thegirlproject,
tchotchke tchelsea


This weekend my ex girlfriend was drugged at a bar and nearly raped, the friend she went with was drugged, raped, and woke up naked in her van.

I’m so tired of feeling helpless in these situations and feeling like there’s nothing I can do to make an impact! My blood as been boiling. This same situation has reoccurred time and time again and I’ve never been able to figure out how to have any influence.

I’m here to get some help and direction with my idea, or resources... see if anybody has any experience in what my plans are… etc.

I’d like to become a decoy of sorts. Work with authorities (even though I believe they spend little time and energy on catching people who use roofies to rape). Basically use myself to catch drink-druggers and get them arrested, hopefully get their providers arrested. I don’t know how it would work exactly, I just had this idea last night. Maybe be paired with a female cop? Have a wire to backup outside? Have testing strips in my purse to check the drinks?

I just want to do SOMETHING. Rape is not getting any less frequent. It’s not going anywhere, and I can’t sit and do nothing anymore.

Has anyone heard of programs like this anywhere? Anything, really, any ideas or direction or possible organizations I can affiliate myself with or ask for advice would be great. Thanks in advance.

x-posted everywhere.
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